I Don’t Celebrate A Birthday- I Celebrate a Birth Month!

PomeroySays
4 min readOct 1, 2024

I am one of those obnoxious people who starts talking about their birthday weeks before. Although my birthday is at the end of October, I start talking about it on Oct. 1.

As a kid, I had to share my birthday month with my grandmother and cousin. I never felt I got enough attention.

These days, as I am nearing 50 years old in a few years, I do not want a lot of attention on my birthday. And forget about Facebook. I have shut off my wall for birthday greetings.

Because honestly there is nothing worse than getting 10 greetings, while a person you know who lies that they are “never on Facebook” gets 100 messages.

After a few times of this, I gave up and stopped letting people wish me anything. And I am happier for it.

Here are some of my experiences with birthday brats.

They Hint Heavily They Need a Surprise Birthday Party

A few months ago, two of my husband’s cousins had a joint surprise 50th birthday party. And it was kind of ridiculous. I think big birthdays should be reserved for the real milestone birthdays, like 60, 70, 80, and 90. I also told my son and husband I do not want a big 50th birthday party. To me, there is nothing more cringe than celebrating…

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