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Dear Perfect Christmas Moms, Please Calm Down.

It’s okay to let the kids decorate the tree…

PomeroySays
3 min readDec 4, 2024

Moms need to stop trying to control everyone else actions to have the “perfect” holiday.

I tend to be a laidback person. When my son was younger, he helped decorate the tree. Sure he put ornaments in one spot on the tree, but it was cute.

I did not go after him and “fix” the tree. I have never been one of those perfect holiday moms.

Christmas Queens are annoying because…

  • They add another level of stress to the holiday that none of us need.
  • Many of them start their whining right after Thanksgiving.
  • They don’t let the kids decorate the Christmas tree. So what if they don’t put the ornaments in “right” place. Let them help and contribute. I am glad I let my son growing up decorate the tree.
  • They have to be the perfect baker and cook.
  • The Christmas tree has to be from a Hallmark tree farm and perfectly decorated. No fake trees for them!

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