4 Ways To Spot Someone Who Is Using You For Social Currency
Recently I wrote about red flag people who will take your money, stuff, and time from you. Well, this article is a little different. This is about those who use others just for social currency.
I will start this story back many years ago. I had just won the school talent show with my rendition of “My Boyfriend’s Back” with my friends. I was a ham back then and I guess I still am.
So I was in 4th grade and just as confident as anything. But even at that age, there were bullies in class. I avoided them like the plague. But after I won the talent show, I also won a pizza party. The teacher ordered pizza and I took home the leftovers.
The kids, even the brazen bullies, followed me out of the school, asking for pizza. Even at that age, they were pretending to be nice to get something.
And even at age 9, I knew what they were doing. I told them no and kept walking. My family and I enjoyed the pizza that night.
But it showed me that some people will go to any length to use others. Here are more signs:
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